1. Return to the beginning
2. Keep your mate at the top of the list
3. Be each other's best friend
4. Focus on the positive
5. Appreciate the differences
6. Have a sense of humor
7. Enjoy sexual intimacy - both of you
8. Talk to each other
9. Be your mates' favorite cheerleader
10. set your boundaries
11. Raise your kids together
12. Manage your money in harmony
13. Nourish the spiritual side of your marriage
14. Hold on though the hard times
From the book "Married For Better. Not Worse"
by Gary and Joy Lundberg